Does sex belong in video games?

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Tits and ass are incredibly prevalent in modern society. Sex is used to sell products in advertising, actors are shamefully primped into digitally crafted sex symbols and TV shows like Toddlers in Tiaras, stretch the definition of acceptable television viewing. Sex is everywhere, but oddly, not in our games.

With the recent pulling of No Reply Games' sex focused, interactive story 'game' “Seduce Me” from Valve's Greenlight service due to breaking of the terms and conditions – for being an “offensive” title – sex is back in the headlines of gaming websites the world over, all of them asking the question, “does sex belong in video games?”

It could be argued that games purely focused around sex are pornographic in nature and therefore warrant some sort of segmentation perhaps, in the way it is with websites and traditionally with stores that cater specifically to it.

But what about games that just feature sex as a feature or component of the overall experience?

Every time a popular title attempts to put anything sex like in its games that goes beyond a fade to black and some grunts, there's a problem. Look at GTA: San Andreas' Hot Coffee mod, or the blue side boob that appeared for a brief second in Mass Effect 2. It all gets blown out of proportion, people that haven't even played the game or seen footage of the event start screaming “save the children,” and to some it seems as if the world is going to end.

Of course it never does and children are as corrupted as their parents allow them to be. These games have age ratings for a reason and if parents choose to ignore them it's their responsibility to set it right, or at least explain things to their kids so they understand and learn about the adult activity in a constructive way.

But should it be there in the first place? Well the obvious answer would be yes, for a variety of reasons.

1: Taking into consideration the age ratings I mentioned earlier, the average gamer is in their 30s at this point. Not only have they had sex, they've been living with internet pornography for over 15 years. Believe me, unless you're doing a game adaptation of The Serbian Film, this is nothing we haven't seen before.

2: Unless it's Manhunt, where ritualistic killing was censored because... it's the game the lobby groups decided to go after, murder barely raises an eyebrow from anyone. Killing is rampant in games. Just look at the fast Paragon leveller in Diablo III. He's killed almost two million monsters alone. If he can commit mass murder, why can't a game have a sex scene in it?

3: Sex is a part of life. For anyone that doesn't know, it's how babies are made. Shocking I know, but we all began our life at a moment of parental coitus and society is slowly beginning to lose the taboo. It's still there – and enjoyed by many – but the simple fact is that sex shouldn't be considered a naughty thing any more. It's in films, in advertising, television and there is absolutely no reason it shouldn't be in our games.

However, despite these very obvious reasons that sex should be included in games and accepted by the public as a simple part of the artistic medium, the blame isn't entirely on the shoulders of complainers. Game developers could also help the cause out.

Despite the criticism for its leud content, Mass Effect actually has an incredibly impressive and deeply emotional erotic part to it but it is a rarity. More often than not, we get adventurers fucking hookers, or silly quick time sex games or button mashing to fuck harder. This isn't the type of thing that detractors of sexual content in gaming are going to agree with, probably ever.

No I'm not saying that because lobbyists and complainers have stale sex lives that games should be the same, but there isn't a reason that sex can't be used as an emotional connector between characters either.

Games focused around getting the clothes off of a digital woman should be just as allowed to exist in our gaming spheres as the latest AAA blockbuster, but they don't further the cause of sex in video games as much as they could.

Not only do I believe that sex deserves to be a part of gaming, I think it deserves to have more credit as a part of the emotional story within a game. It doesn't need to be your character just getting his rocks off, or a nudge-nudge-wink-wink from the developers saying “we know what you gamers want, digital titties,” but a real way for players to connect with a character.

We talked a few weeks about about how Lara Croft's surviving of an attempted rape could be used to delve into all sorts of new character emotions within a game. How about include a sex scene in that game not long after the rape and make it optional. Have it so that players can decide. If she goes along with it, perhaps Lara is emotionally distracted and merely trying to forget a horrific experience, thereby not building a relationship with the male counterpart. Perhaps if she says no, players can learn something about his character.

Sex is a massive motivator in human life and it should be used in games as well, not just as a treat or a laughable aside, but a real part of the gameplay. It can be part of the story and part of the world the developers create.

It doesn't always have to be, just as not every single racing game has to be a sim like experience, but just now and again I'd like to see some real effort put into sex.

That last line could have been phrased better.

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If it's a sin, stop sticking

If it's a sin, stop sticking your pecker into a woman's love shaft. Maybe then, we won't get inbreded spawns like you coming out. You're obviously a devil in discuss. GO AWAY SATIN! I mean seriously how can you be telling people what and what not to like? Nobody tells me how to live my life and certainly not from bible humpers like you. See you're even humping your own bible. Save yourself. Chop off your pecker now! Hurry go. Your god has spoken.

really

You must not have the same God as the saine people. And if your that sheltered how do you even know what video games are? Maybe you should stick to watching veggie tails and leave the majority of the world that doesn't have your issues alone!!!!

Sex in Video games

You know, we're too sophisticated and adult to believe in Santa Claus, the tooth fairy and the easter bunny. But we're willing to believe,(and to be willing to kill others who don't believe the way we do), that, assuming there is one, the Creator and maintainer of this vast, universe with inumerable galaxies each containing billions of stars, actually is concerned with the goings on of this this microscopic speck of matter in a rather average solar system in a medium sized galaxy containing billions of stars probably containing millions of inhabited planets. Get over yourself. Man isn't that important in the universe. We're not the crown of creation. Really. And if you think the Creator of this vast universe (and maybe even other universes) cares who you have sex with, it's time to grow up mentally. Because if man is the best there is, this universe is in serious trouble. Study your history. All religious texts were written to control the behavior of the public. I couldn't love a father that I was afraid would beat me every time I did something wrong. How can you love a God that threatens to damn you forever for not worshipping him? I'll never understand that.

Oh, dear...

Actually, I don't feel any sexual drive. I'm a woman, but still. I think Jesus was homosexual, really. He was having affairs with Judas. Judas became jealous, and this is why he betrayed him. Humans are animals. Sex is natural, so why should is be "sinful"? Is breathing a "sin"? Religion has some good moral points, but most of it is just manipulative trash used to control weak-minded rubes.

It has a point right?

I'm not any extreme christian so i believe that since God has control over everything (mind you atheists and agnostics etc) And if he creates everything then he created our sexual body parts, sexual thoughts, lives, capabilities, all of these things are created by him. I understand sex before marriage is a sin, but after marriage, nothing is off the table. Not only that but, watching a pornographic video like an obsessed pervert or jerking it to a sex scene in a video game is just lust, not sex. Therefore, it cannot be classified as a sexual act. Unless asexualty in humans is a thing...

It has a point right?

I'm not any extreme christian so i believe that since God has control over everything (mind you atheists and agnostics etc) And if he creates everything then he created our sexual body parts, sexual thoughts, lives, capabilities, all of these things are created by him. I understand sex before marriage is a sin, but after marriage, nothing is off the table. Not only that but, watching a pornographic video like an obsessed pervert or jerking it to a sex scene in a video game is just lust, not sex. Therefore, it cannot be classified as a sexual act. Unless asexualty in humans is a thing...

Asexuality is a thing.

Just like we have heterosexuality and homosexuality, there are a decent number of folks in the world who simply have no interest in sex with anyone ever. It's quite possible that they don't even masturbate, but I don't have them all entered into my cell phone so I can't ask.

I believe not

Video games, work, sleep, eating, drinking, is what we do to fill up the time we aren't having sex. Is hard to think about sex and strategy at the same time. Nothing worse than being horny when you don't want to be. Remember sitting in class next to a smoking hottie in school.....it was fucking impossible to pay attention the assignment.

If they make em i'll buy em

I wish they made more games like these and keep making em by the 100's every year until dumb f***s like you who find sex between pixels or still images insulting learn to accept it. It's a game it was made for an adult audience if you don't like it don't play it, same goes for you not dying outside in the streets daily... you choose not to cross on red light you decide not to take a shortcut jumping out your window, and you also choose not to shoot yourself in the fin face. So please use that brain and make this another choice and don't play it don't criticize it don't even go looking at it. Sick and tired of fks who think they control the world and wish to censor everything in the world to protect their so called innocent children who go out of their way to illegally download porn and everything else that's 18+ learn to control your kids or don't have em.

Example of a game using sex in a good, meaningful way

It's not really much of a game, It's more of a visual Novel that asks you what decision to make once in a While. Check it out though, it's called KATAWA SHOUJO It's in english, I Promise, and It's a Beautiful Story. There are Sex Scenes, but they're Few in number, Make sense in the plot, and really actually help build the emotional connection between the players and Characters. That, plus the option to Turn off adult content, In case it still makes you uncomfortable, Makes this game a Prime example of Sex Being used Properly in a game. People don't play it for the Boobies, they play it to enjoy an adorable, heartwarming, and sometime Heat-wrenching Story. The artwork at most times is Cute rather than Sexy, And they really get the Character's Emotions to show themselves well in the Artwork. Overall, I want to Recommend KATAWA SHOUJO to all the Readers here who agree with the Author of this article. Here's a link to the download.

Sex is not evil, but calling it private has weight.

The chief motivation behind not putting sex in video games isn't that people think sex is evil; it's that many people regard sex as something very private that ought to be solely the business of the people involved. Even though violence is generally regarded as evil, we don't regard it as something private; we're willing to tolerate morally gray actions like violence because they generally don't make us feel like peeping toms, or like we're disloyal to our significant others. Is it hypocritical to hold games to this standard but not films and literature? Certainly. However, I believe we would be better off if we refused to show sex onscreen in film and literature out of respect for the privacy of couples, even fictional ones.

wake up

you are entitled to your feelings but don't speak for the rest of us gamers, when shepherd finally has sex and she's able with tali that really brought her to life for me, after all the work I did to cause it, and thus I care if she committed suicide. Before I wouldn't have. I also found Seasons of Sakura highly enjoyable as sex was a focal point in choosing his life partner. My sex life is private, my character is fantasy, simple.

Cencorship option then

I think sex is just that. It's just a natural thing and to censor it is like supporting ignorance of what is real. These characters are fictional, so it doesn't matter to me. I don't like feeling left out of what's going on, espeically if it's supposedly my character, like in Mass Effect. "I" can see Tali's face, but not me? If you feel it should be private, even in fiction, then games should have a cencorship option, like they do with blood & gore. Morality is subjective and I don't believe in forcing it onto people if they can avoid doing so.

Ugh.

If parents don't want their children to see dick, ass, and titties then why the honest fuck would they go out and buy the game or play the game in front of their children? Are we seriously that stupid? In case you didn't know, all you ignorant fucks out there, the provider/guardian of the home is responsible for what the child watches! If you don't want them watching family guy, set parental blocks. If you don't want them listening to "offensive music", use parental blocks. If you don't want them texting that guy down the street, use parental blocks. If you don't want them playing a videogame that has sex in it, DON'T GO OUT AND BUY THEN GAME. It's simple logic really. Use your fucking brain.

peace n love

Ban killing from games, allow sex.... Really. Parents losing it cause there's a boob showing or a raunchy scene? but their ok cause their son is killing ripping and decapitating in a game??? Our society is going sick.....

lol

just going by the title... (didn't read the meat) im assuming your QQ'ing about "mature" content. which leads me to believe your either a very disturbingly ugly male (so much so you detest the opposite sex) or it pains you to get aroused OR your a fat girl and detest anything that achieves a level of physical beauty you wont be able to. or your 12 and haven't hit puberty yet. The level of immaturity displayed by people that raise an issue with this is comical. I consider myself left wing, so perhaps these people are FAAR FAAAAAR left because whatever you are, people like you create negative media attention that hurts everyone and helps no one. what a waste of time.

lol

did a quick skimming, you seem to be raising the issue as a legitimate debate, and not pushing an agenda. so apologies - my prior comment is for the introverted social outcasts that need to blame something so they use sex.

All of You Whiny Bitches

Shut the fuck up. Just like ALL other forms of entertainment, games should be allowed to have as much sex and nudity as anything else. Just because you were raped, or think you were, or have a shitty sex life and feel like ruining everyone else's fun. That just shows me how childish you really are. I put nude mods on my games to make them feel more realistic. I take of a chicks clothes and she's naked, more realistic than her still having something on. I also don't have any moral standards, I do what I feel is right because that's what I want to do. I don't believe in any god and I still have an awesome life.

Should be acceptable

I have no problem with sex in games, as long as the game is rated AO. Adults should be able to purchase any type of game/entertainment they desire (that is legal), and a game with sexual situations is no different than a movie with a sex scene. Even a sex simulator is acceptable, provided adults over 18 are the only ones able to play it. These games should not be marketed to children either.

The problem here is that

The problem here is that having an AO rating for your game is a death sentence. Most sites won't cover or advertise AO games. Most stores won't even acknowledge that they exist. GL finding a single one on Steam. Until games with this rating aren't deliberately buried; you can't use it for games. They have to go for Mature, sorry but 17+ is old enough to see sex. Maybe you didn't lose your virginity until 25 or grew up in some stupid purity church, but for the rest of us, 17+ or 18+ is sufficient for all adult content.

Makes sense

Ive had the same idea in mind for awhile, u see it everywhere else so why is it such a big deal in games? I think the majority of ppl in the real world engage in sex far more often then a shootout. And ur point about being emotional, makes so much sense. Besides u shouldnt choose to buy a game just on whether it has sex in it or not. U make many good points, its too bad so many others arent taking this seriously. But u make many good points, and i hope that the feeling of taboo about sex in games will be gone rather soon, and ppl would stop making such a fuss about it. Personally, i also think that it is lifting, and that maybe within the next decade even, although that might be a little too hopeful, that it will be just like killing is today. If u think about it, some of the earliest games created for consoles were centered around killing. It might just be because, unlike violence and killing, sex hasnt been present throughout the life of video games in general.

Really, you want sex in your games? All else ain't good enough?

First of all nobody's stopping game-makers from putting such things. They simply don't like too because it's bad for business for parents cutting a huge chunk of their sales. Also, sex and nudity are rarely part of the art. They're cheap attention grabbers meant to increase sales. Games are typically enjoyable enough without such things. Also, big businesses are simply not the heartless greedy butt-holes the left makes them out to be. Unlike you apparently, they do have some level of conscience regarding what children will be exposed too due to their own decisions. Their primary fan-base are kids. To say that a considerable number of children won't be exposed to everything they put into their games is just stupid, no matter how much they put warning labels. If you really honestly need sexually explicit material that bad, then there are ways of taking care of that which don't expose a bunch of kids to inappropriate material all because you don't appreciate not having sexual things in your computer games. I rather appreciate the lack of sexual immorality in most games. If I need sexually explicit material, I certainly find real videos and pictures far more gratifying than drawn cartoon and avatar figures. Oh and if you're into that, there's plenty of it online too. As for violence, yes it's far less detrimental because everyone knows that you can get hurt as much as you dole it out. Certainly, violence has it's undesired influence, but sexual immorality creates broken homes, and is very deceptive as to the reality of the consequences that not only effect the perpetrators,but also everyone around them, and has the worst effect on the most vulnerable, innocent, and impressionable people. Also,sexual immorality tends to breed a violence into people due to it's direct effect on one's home-life and those vitally important years of childhood.

And you really believe that

And you really believe that showing sex is so much worse than depicting violence? What a messed up believe. Sex and eroticism is natural. It's how we reproduce and keep our species alive. But you would rather show a kid how to kill it's own species? Cause the main enemy in games, movies and shows are humans. True there is alsosome aliens, zombies, ghosts and a fractual amount of animals in games, but lets be real, how many aliens, zombies, ghosts or aggresive bunny rabbits, deers and wolves have you seen. The first three don't exist or are any part of our life as far we know. At least not scientifical. With aliens I am open for discussion cause I can not believe that earth is supposed to be the only hospitable planet, and that in this vast a universe (and there is probably more than one, I'm not completely up to date on that) there is not supposed to be another or more "intelligent" and probably also far superior species than us. But back to my point. For the most part killing depicts genocide and or homocide. Meaning killing within the own race, and race as in homo sapiens, the current evolutionary state of our species. So you want to tell me that showing and encouraging kids and for that matter anyone to kill fellow humans is better than showing sexual content which just shows a natural part of us and every other species alive, cause we all need to reproduce. Than I believe that you have a very messed up sense of right and wrong. I am pretty sure that noone so far was really talking about sexual harassment, exploit, rape and molesting, but more about sex in general. And I'm also pretty sure that the main focus was not on pornographic hard core fetish sex but first of all the sensual and romantical part of it. And if you want to start on that kids will be able to have access to no matter what kind of labelling and safeguard there is, well than you should still check in with there parents and see what they did wrong, as you put it. Cause kids will always have access to whatever adult life features just because no one is 100% true, honest, law abiding and free of sin. And if you are a religious person for Christianity and you want a biblical reference than what about "they who are free of sin, shall throw the first stone". Sorry only have that reference cause ot was the only religion I was ever taught. But than again almost all of the present religions velieve in the same god and system. It's just the way that this god communicates with us is one of main spots for discussion and that some get too hyped about. Since I'm typing all of this on a phone, I can't see the beginning anymore and don't know whether I made a valid point or not. But at least I gave my two cents and want to conclude this statement by my goal for the future FREE ICECREAM FOR EVERYONE. Thank you

Dude I'm sorry about this but

Dude I'm sorry about this but I can't help it. To quote PMRants, a well known Youtuber if you didn't already know, "Your english teacher must be very proud of you. I bet she gave you the nickname Zero, not because of the badass reploid from the Megaman X series but because it represents your grade point average." Seriously dude, read what you write before you post it.

you are wrong

First these companies are not doing this for the kids or because they think its morally wrong or right , they do it for money, period. They don't care morally about what they do and they especially don't if your kids sees it or not. The main reason is MONEY, Second, you dont think if a porn game actually would sell in America they wouldnt do one in a second? The dating/sex sims are big in Japan and those seem like they would be cheap to make. Hell you wouldnt even have to have them in brick and mortar stores. You could just sell them on one of the stores and then it would be 100% on the parents. Im more pissed with this convo because people are actually saying boo sex, yet giving the ultra violence in games a pass. Im cool with violence to the point Im actually a fan and horror is my go to genre. Still the problem with America is the lose their head at the sight of a nipple but when they see someones actual head gone from a gunshot they are only outraged as long as its trendy, a week later and were over it. Im not saying violence needs to be toned down, Im saying is stupid to put something beautiful and natural like sex in the same league as violence. I blamed this 100% on Christianity and conservatives

why.

My opinion is: Parents seem to be ok with death/killing/mutilating/drugs/guns/ect on tv/movies/games but for god sakes dont show nudity or sex. why do they think like this. i have no bloody idea. i rather have a sex addict child then a sociopath who likes killing.

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